LETS TALK ABOUT SEX ...

sooooo ladies and gentlemen, i have a question that I want an answer to. HONESTLY. and maybe possibly we can all agree to disagree ?? So the question is , is it ever ok to have a one night stand.  WHEN IS IT EVER OK? can a girl just be interested in a guy for no more than sex? and would it ever be alright for a female to do it and not be called any names in the end and have her whole reputation ruined? answer me this......

guys have done it, and now females are now doing it too. ONE NITE STANDS are not only convenient but it excludes all the emotions and feelings that gets us all confused, caught up, attached, and heart broken in the end.  so why not? why not have that guy and call him up in the middle of the night and ask him to come over and just have hott nasty no strings attached sex? why not? WELLL ONE COMMON REASON. most one nite stands last for about a week or so because of lack of communication.

if your going to do it, have a mutual agreement for starters.  lay down the rules and be blunt. be real. don't leave anything behind and nothing left out.  make sure that its someone you can trust. and most importantly make sure that the guy isn't feeling you in "that way."  a lot of us females get confused and resort to having sex with that one guy they could never see themselves with , but he thinks the world of you. its ok. i know you feel secure and safe and know that he will never do you wrong but ITS WRONG. it hurts and it will only leave you both heart broken in the end.

and the list goes on......

just know that we're all human and we all have needs. its ok to have a one night stand, but too many could lead to waaaay more complicated situations, name calling, and etc.... yikes !

BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY ALWAYS PRACTICE SAFE SEX ....